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En sag har to sider, ordstyrer unødvendig
Man bliver klog - får FORSTÅELSE - når man afprøver sine mere eller mindre
extreme synspunkter i debat, og får hård feedback, hvis nogen ser brist i
facts eller logik.
Her nogle visdomsord om den ædle sport "konversation" , som gælder
net-dialog hvor man fokuserer på emne, bold ej mand.
Måske vi alle er mest interesseret i hvad vi selv har på hjerte, og
næstmest interesseret i at høre vor modparter blive gjort til grin, men
vitsen skal være virkelig god, for at det er ulejligheden værd med
personangreb.



Samtalens sande ånd består i at bygge videre på et andet menneskes
iagttagelser, ikke i at tilsidesætte dem. E.G. Bulwer-Lytton
con "When entering a marriage, one should ask the question:
do you think you will be able to have good conversation with this woman
right into old age? Everything else in marriage is transitory, but most of
the time in interaction is spent in conversation.. Nietzsche
con One of the reasons that we find so few persons rational and agreeable
in conversation
is, that there is hardly a person who does not think more of, what he
wants to say, than of his answer to, what is said. Duc de La
Rochefoucauld
con When elderly invalids meet with fellow-victims of their own ailments,
then at last real conversation begins, and life is delicious. Logan Pearsall
Smith
con Alle mennesker er kedelige, undtagen når vi har brug for dem. Oliver
Wendell Holmes
Con Conversation is an art in which man has all mankind for competitors.
R.W.Emerson
con Den kunst at samtale består at to: af kunsten at kunne tale og kunsten
at kunne tie og høre. Georg Brandes
Con Der findes intet, som hedder konversation. Det er en illusion. Hvad der
findes, er afbrudte monologer. (Dialog er ofte to samtidige monologer
i hver sin retning) Rebecca West
con Et virkeligt godt råd er derfor, at vi alle bruger størstedelen af vor
samfundsdebattid på indgående og fordomsfrit at beskæftige os med det, vore
modstandere siger og skriver. (Glistrup-citat)


Con Hun lider af verbal inkontinens. Hendes problem er, at hun helt mangler
evnen til at konversere, men bestemt ikke evnen til at tale. George
Bernard Shaw
con If you wish to appear agreeable in society, you must consent to be
taught many things which you know already. John Caspar Lavater (1741-1801)
Con Questioning is not the mode of conversation among gentlemen. It is
assuming a superiority. Samuel Johnson 1709 - 84
con She was a great talker upon little matters. Jane Austen
Con The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is
waiting. Fran Lebowitz
Con Too much agreement kills a chat. Eldridge Cleaver
COna Den ene søger en fødselshjælper til sine tanker, den anden en, som han
kan hjælpe: sådan opstår en god samtale. Nietzsche
cona Konversation burde berøre alt, men ikke samle sig om noget. Oscar
Wilde
Cona Man tænker bedst, når man har talt. Piet Hein
cona The bond of all companionship, whether in marriage or in friendship, is
conversation. Oscar Wilde
conb I samtaler mellem mennesker bliver de trefjerdedel af spørgsmålene
stillede og de trefjerdedele af svarende givne for at gøre den samtalende en
ganske lille smule ondt.
Derfor tørster mange mennesker så stærkt efter selskaber,
Det yder dem en følelse af deres kraft." (Nietzsche)
conc One of the reasons that we find so few persons rational and agreeable
in conversation is, that there is hardly a person who does not think more
of, what he wants to say, than of his answer to, what is said. Duc de
La Rochefoucauld
Conc That is the happiest conversation where there is no competition, no
vanity, but a calm quite interchange of sentiments. Gerald Johnson
Conf Snak og veltalenhed er ikke det samme: At tale og tale godt er to ting.
Et fjols kan snakke, men en klog mand taler Ben Johnson
conf There is no conversation more boring than the one where everybody
agrees Montaigne, Michel de (1533-1592)
conf Women have simple taste. They can get pleasure out of the conversation
of children in arms and men in love. H.L. MenckenCHILDISH
cong Menneskers samtale er en blanding af beklagelser og bange anelser.
R.W.Emerson
cong Ultimately the bond of all companionship whether in marriage or in
friendship, is conversation. Oscar Wilde
conke Kedelig kaldes en person, som kun vil tale, når du vil have, at han
skal høre efter Ambrose Bierce 1842-1914
conke Vi tilgiver ofte dem, som keder os, men aldrig dem, som vi keder.Duc
de La Rochefoucauld
cons People of the same trade seldom meet together, even for merriment and
diversion, but the conversation ends in a conspiracy against the public, or
in some contrivance to raise prices. Adam Smith
conxz A man of no conversation should smoke. Emerson
conxz Few people will not expose the private affairs of their friends, when
at a loss for at subject of conversation Nietzsche
conz As it is the characteristic of great wits to say much in few words,
con Conversation is an art in which man has all mankind for competitors.
R.W.Emerson