The Promised* Definition of Friendship
27 March 2005
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You probably know the feeling of friendship quite well.
You feel the truth about someone, and friendship follows:
You discover, what you can and want to give to someone, and you
try to give that,
and you expect from another, that he or she feels the truth
about you, and (that he or she) also acts upon that.
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So we can define it:
Friendship is feeling the truth about someone and discovering as
a result, what you can and want to give to someone (and to many,
as you can have many friendships), and to try to give that -
and also expecting from another (and from many), to feel the
truth about you, and that he or she also acts upon that.
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And now we can more easily look at the distortions and reversals, that
have been introduced:
Friendship is NOT 'how to get something from someone.'
Friendship is NOT:
'What you have to observe,
what you have to do and know and see, and what you
agree to be blind to and stupid in,
in order to get from another (and from others) what you
want or need.'
That's NOT friendship.
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But Criminal Minds *(1) have made it seem like that, and they
try very hard to make life, or even a whole society, be like
that,
because that is how THEY (Criminal Minds) are,
- THAT is what Vladimir Putin is, for example,
that is how HE wants others to be "friends" to
him -
that is how Criminal Minds want you and anyone else to be
"friends."
"Oh, you want so and so much oil and gas? You want
that I be nice to you and to others? THEN be a
'friend' to me - hide all my crimes, support all my
lies, be criminal to others as I want to, especially
to your friends, betray them, and THEN we are
'friends'."
The faithful reader knows, that it is not
at all possible to be friends with a Criminal
Mind, also not with a Criminal Mind who is
"an ally" to you in some cause, seemingly.
A Criminal Minds is BY DEFINITION an
Enemy, a 'no-friend,' and they can not
be repaired, regrettably enough,
I have to repeat what the faithful
and intelligent reader already
knows.
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Friendship does NOT consist of 'seeing only the mask' that
a "friend," who is in actual fact a Criminal Mind, demands
of you to accept as "being him"
- to accept it, as if his mask (his 'act,' as if)
"THAT is being himself" (or "her being herself,"
as the case may be).
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THEIR idea of "friendship" is, that you
believe all their varying lies that they
use in varying circumstances
(as you know it from Vladimir
Putin:)
- lies about themselves, about their
feelings, about their motives and
intentions, about their past, about
others - and
THAT "is friendship," according to such
"friends" of yours,
(or according to family members of yours,
maybe,
or according to your religious "family,"
the Great Muslim brotherhood:
Some very severely Criminal Minds
walk around the Kaaba, in Mecca,
*(15)
yesterday or so, coming to
visit, from some Caucasian
country or other province of
Vladimir Putin,
they walk around Mecca's
Kaaba, around the holiest
stone of the Muslims,
'holy' being generally
defined as "do not
understand or examine
this, but assume there
is some good Energy
present," {definition}
though I have never
seen the word actually
defined somewhere, by
far not correctly and
well enough, that is,
(I repeat) they walk around
Mecca's Kaaba, around the
holiest stone in the holiest
temple of the holiest
Muslims,
IN ORDER TO THEN BE SEEN AS
"friends," as "not-violent-Criminals," or as
"accepted and trusted by the group, even IF
violently Criminal,"
and the other (medieval-Arab) Muslims, then
indeed (did) receive these
violent Criminal Minds as "brothers in Islam,"
as "friends." *(15)
THAT IS extraordinarily stupid, and a violation of any
security protocol, and it is exposing your population to
extreme danger:
Such is "Islam" in its medieval, tribal form,
as we see it today still in the Middle East
and in parts of Malaysia.
"Criminal Minds do not exist," they are
replaced by Stone Pillars standing in
Mecca, at which one has to throw stones,
at least once in one's life time,
if one has any left over, that is,
from stoning people to death who
love each other too much, at home.
"Criminal Minds do not exist," and are
"replaced" by 'Non-Believers,' also,
or 'Kaffirs' as you are called in
the most primitive "Islamic"
societies.
And anyone who does NOT want to have his
or her life destroyed by these barbaric,
Middle Eastern, rural traditions, should
equally count with being stoned to death
"as a legal procedure" to "protect the
tribe."
They can't even DEFINE 'law,' nor
'legal'
- their tribal customs and tribal
Arab upbringing, have wholly
destroyed their soul's knowledge
of such concepts,
which is the nightmare of
all civilized nations who
suffer(ed) from an influx of
people who came as 'cheap
labor,' but who brought
their barbaric customs and
"thinking" with them too.
"Legal" or "The Law," "is
whatever the head of the
tribe," in this case the
religious head, "proclaims
'is Law and is Legal'."
"A good and trusted person,"
is whomever the religious
or tribal head says to
accept, and thus to trust.
That's the whole "Law" of
such tribes, including the
Muslim "Sharia" - which is
not even vaguely a 'Law' at
all, but an account of very
primitive, very destructive
customs.
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ALL THEY WANT, is to have NEITHER
themselves NOR other Criminal
Minds detected, but instead,
to have these as head of the state
or as head of (the) religion.
As such, they are not different at
all from Vladimir Putin in Russia,
or from Mao or Jiang Zemin
or Hu Jintao in China,
or from Castro or Chavez
in the Caribbean.
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A Criminal Mind wants you NOT TO FEEL the truth
about himself (nor about others),
but he intends that you assume and accept, and are
convinced,
(also in order to make life with him "more
easy on you," "to make life feel pleasant
to you," he wants you to accept)
that the pretense IS him, that "you are feeling 'the
truth' about him," that "he is 'being himself'."
That's what Vladimir Putin WANTS.
That's what he INTENDS. *(11)
BUT YOU MUST NOT EVER FOLLOW THE INTENTIONS OF A
CRIMINAL MIND. *(10)
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Again: When THEY demand "friendship" of you, that
then means, that they demand, that you accept their
lies into your life and thinking and acting
(that you feel "as true," and that you think
with and act upon their lies) *(11)
being their "friend" DEMANDS, that you feel, as if
what they say, "is the truth about themselves," and
that "friendship" DEMANDS, that you feel as if what
they say, "is the truth about others." *(11)
You can again take the example of Vladimir
Putin, if you like.
Listening to him, you might get the idea
that all Russian intelligence has been
(drained away and then was) concentrated
in Russia's chess champions.
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In other words, THEY define "friend" as someone who
believes, whatever they say "is true,"
and a "friend" - in THEIR eyes - is someone who does
whatever they want or demand. *(11)
An ACTUAL friend, however, does examine
anything you say, in particular your
intentions - and tells you his own
observations, of course, to your benefit - and
an actual friend tries to understand - not
just what you pretend, of course, but - what
you actually do want, what your real, true
intentions are.
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Friendship is NOT 'whatever you have to do, to get
someone's approval or admiration or support,'
and then getting it by finding out what HE (or SHE)
does want you to know and see and do
- and of course that means also -
by complying with what you then must 'NOT see,' and
by finding out or sensing, what past you then have
to forget or MUST NOT remember, or must pretend
"does to exist,"
in order to maintain a "friendship" with
such a person - with a Criminal Mind,
actually,
be it a "friend" or a family member, or
a "senior" at your work - and *(11)
by sensing, or 'being made to understand,' what
things are "not done," what NORMAL AND DECENT,
CARING, AND FRIENDLY things are "not done," around
your "friend" the Criminal Mind
- things that you used to feel and think of,
and did -
you now suddenly "must refrain from doing,"
things of care and compassion and free
exchange of feelings, and mutual understanding
and natural support for humanity,
you now suddenly should consider "bad," yes,
"destructive" even: *(11)
By exposing Putin's murdering of Russian
people, you "betray Russia." *(13)(n)(n)
How insane and destructive can you be
made to be, by any Criminal Mind (by
Putin)? Very...
Putin does not want Russia to be
a part of NATO, but he wants to
get China and Russia to OPPOSE
NATO.
So instead of alleviating any
poverty, we have to maintain
weapons etc. - which is EXTREMELY
expensive.
You are being made so intensely
insane - WHY? Because of what you
- what the basically SANE,
what the NORMAL people -
do not know, and which I thus
have to tell you, and I do so
because I AM your friend, I do
so BECAUSE of my Love for you,
I have to teach you this:
That is how Criminal Minds think and work and operate -
and how they try to dominate you and others. *(11)
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You are not like that - even when you are forced to act like
it - it is NOT YOUR NATURE AT ALL,
it is very much contrary to your nature, and it is contrary to
the nature of any normal person.
According to your nature, you:
DO NOT EVER FOLLOW THE INTENTIONS OF A
CRIMINAL MIND *(10)
under no circumstances, other than
to tactically pretend to do so in
order to carry out YOUR purpose,
which also then is to
ACTIVELY AVOID THE INTENTIONS OF A
CRIMINAL MIND.
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It IS your nature to be friends with people:
To feel the truth about them, and
to then see what they - actually need,
- truth having been defined correctly, and
truth being absolute, as that what really did
happen with what actual intention by whom
including any, possibly hidden intentions, and
including any, possibly un-looked-for
individuals,
so you can feel, sense or see what someone would need
or enjoy:
joy, which I do call a need, too, like showing
someone some real Beauty or actual Love, or true
interest, an encouragement maybe, a smile even -
to then try and provide (to give) that,
in accordance with your own abilities and possibilities, and
in line with your personal preferences. *(2)
That is a somewhat formal statement, first I try to
describe things precisely - the framework - and then you
or I can give it substance, to make it more felt and more
visible. *(14) {writing technique}{philosophy}
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That is what people DO, normally
- which you can observe immediately when some natural disaster
occurs somewhere,
(by definition, a natural disaster is not
intended, not caused by a Criminal Mind, and
therefore it does NOT HAVE the Energy of
INTENTION to harm people)
where people do not have to detect, nor to oppose or to
overcome, the Energy of someone wanting to destroy life,
when people do not have to detect and fight against
the INTENTION and the lies, by which
a Criminal Mind (or a group of Criminal Minds) tries
to prevent people from being actually helped, but
where there is NO Criminal Mind to oppose,
then it is very easy for people to (continue to) feel their
own nature and thus to follow it -
to be friends with people,
which is feeling the true condition of people, and then seeing
what they need, and wanting to provide that, according to your
own liking,
because doing so, IS the true nature of everyone
(but not of Criminal Minds - as you may know, by now). *(1)
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It is only Criminal Minds, who ENJOY to destroy actual friendship.
*(3)
And they also do destroy any actual friendship you give to THEM,
(because they do not want, that you feel the truth about them,
and because)
to them, "friendship" is only
'what one has to do and to know and to see and understand,'
in order
'to get from you and others what one wants;'
and so
they also force YOU to act like that, especially TO THEM:
"You must know, or else you must be taught in various ways,
you must be made to feel,
what it is, that 'they want,' and what is 'expected of
you'"
- by a Criminal Mind who is "your friend" -
and then "you must provide that to them," or "you must act
or behave accordingly," and
"then all is fine and there will be no trouble,"
"then there will be harmony and stability, and a 'stable
and reliable friendship'."
But...
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In ACTUAL friendship, you (are actively and constantly busy to) feel
the truth about someone (and about many persons), *(4) and by that,
you discover, and feel in yourself, what you can and want to give to
someone (and to many). *(5)
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Also - in actual (reliable) friendship - you are not acting upon
feelings and ideas that a Criminal Mind projects at you
about others, about your friend(s), and about yourself and
about the world in general, about "the nature of life,"
feelings and ideas that you receive AND that are
projected by Criminal Minds in such a way, that it feels to you,
as if "you are feeling your own feelings and thoughts:"
*(6)(7)(8)
You stand up to these and you try and feel truth, because doing that,
IS friendship. *(9)(12)
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Koos Nolst Trenite "Cause Trinity"
human rights philosopher and poet
'Men of all nations came
to listen to Solomon's wisdom,
sent by all the kings of the world,
who had heard of his wisdom.'
1 Kings 4:34
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Footnotes:
(*) As promised in:
'Detecting Criminal Minds By Their Intentional Omission Of Vital
Truth'
{HRI 20020819-V2.2.3}
(19 August 2002 - Version 2.2.3 on 12 May 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.brazil/msg/907447eab9a5f099
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(1) 'The Rights of Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20040108-V1.2.1}
(8 January 2004 - Version 1.2.1 on 9 Aug 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/93359b640af83e20
(2) 'Basic Economics - In Government and Enterprise, People Are
Not Objects'
{HRI note 20060201 version 3)
(1 February 2006 - note version 3, on 2 Feb 2006)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics/msg/5f1b235f38a95b4a
'The First Law of Economics'
{HRI-20031201}
(1 Dec 2003)
(to be issued)
(3) 'Standard Behavior Of Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20030509-V4.2.1}
(9 May 2003 - Version 4.2.1 on 30 Sept 2006)
http://groups.google.com/group/human-rights-issues/msg/1de918df6abdd38c?fcw=1
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.org.un/msg/e18a87e4f1dd0c1f?fcw=1
(4) 'If Pilate Had Provided King Solomon's Justice...'
{HRI 20041102-V1.3}
(2 November 2004 - Version 1.3 on 2 Apr 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/human-rights-issues/msg/8a0076d89f741b32
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.anthropology/msg/10e1d33aa5888fe3
(5) 'Defining Love And Hate - A Law Of Life'
{HRI 20020729-V2.0}
(29 July 2002 - Version 2.0i on 7 January 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/Koos-Nolst-Trenite/msg/40d2a6d4cadc84b1
(6) 'Two More Tools To Detect Criminal Minds'
{HRI 20030716}
(16 July 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.europe/msg/7585a3f78ab01b75
(7) 'The Feeling "When God Has Left You..."
- Introduction to 'What is Hell' '
{HRI 20031124-V3.2}
(24 November 2003 - Version 3.2 on 16 May 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.religion/msg/3c6799e5a78fbda5
(8) 'Only 'Zero Tolerance For Criminal Minds' Can Tolerate Them'
{HRI 20040205-V3.0-beta-1-p1}
(Preview 1 of Version 3.0 PART ONE, on 26 Oct 2004)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.reform/msg/8a0146742b1983c5
(PART TWO:)
'Only 'Zero Tolerance For Criminal Minds' Can Tolerate Them'
{HRI 20040205-V3.0-beta-1-p2}
(Preview 1 of Version 3.0 PART TWO, on 30 Oct 2004)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.politics.reform/msg/5e1dcc49fa4f82e5
(9) 'The Trinity Of Science - Truth, Love and Beauty'
{HRI 20030307-pi-1-V2.1}
(7 Mar 2003 - Version 2.1 on 17 Oct 2003)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.culture.europe/msg/4129fa4f1a67840e
(10) 'The First Law of Human Rights' (FLOHR)
{HRI 20060601-V3.1}
(1 June 2006 - Version 3.1 on 10 July 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/sci.military.naval/msg/23b408cd61f2d053
(11) 'Defining 'Destructive Coward' (Definition)'
{HRI 20050610-V3.2.2}
(10 June 2005 - Version 3.2 on 9 Sep 2006)
(Version 3.2 (or 3.2.2) published on 17 (or 18) May 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/4c3b304dfedd9f84
(12) 'Obviously the Second Law Of Human Rights' (SLOHR)
{HRI 20060924-V3.2}
(24 September 2006 - Version 3.2 on 6 Aug 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/99647b2379a3baa6
(13) 'The FSB, which received a direct order from President Vladimir
Putin to kill Alexander Litvinenko, also had a hand in the 1999
apartment bombings, the Dubrovka theater siege and the murder
of Anna Politkovskaya' - "Death of a Dissident," 2007, by
Litvinenko's widow, Marina, and close friend Alex Goldfarb.
(14) 'If You Want Peace, Then Do Understand And Face Evil
- A Short Course In Human Rights Philosophy'
{HRI 20041225-V1.02}
(25 December 2004 - Christmas Day)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.rights.human/msg/34578c4c3a9f0b22
(15) 'MECCA. Aug 13, 2007 (Interfax) Chechen President Ramzan Kadyrov,
[a severely criminal individual, a stooge put there by Putin]
who arrived in Saudi Arabia on a visit on Sunday evening,
is expected to meet with King Abdallah on Tuesday.
Kadyrov told Interfax that he had brought a personal message
from President Vladimir Putin to the Saudi king.
Kadyrov arrived in Mecca from Jeddah on Monday and immediately
proceeded to the Mosque al-Masjid al-Haram, the Muslim world's
holiest site.
Kadyrov and the officials accompanying him performed the Tawaf
rite, circumambulating the Kaaba, located in the center of the
mosque, seven times.
He then traveled seven times the road between Al Safa and Al
Marwamountains, both part of the Masjid al-Haram complex.'
(n) (to be added)
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References:
'If You Want Peace, Then Do Understand And Face Evil
- A Short Course In Human Rights Philosophy'
{HRI 20041225-V1.02}
(25 December 2004 - Christmas Day)
http://groups.google.com/group/soc.rights.human/msg/34578c4c3a9f0b22
'Who Feels Bach Correctly - The Soul Of Music'
{HRI 20040704-V3.1}
(4 July 2004 - Version 3.1 on 12 June 2005)
http://groups.google.com/group/Koos-Nolst-Trenite/msg/59073fd311d18594
'The Nature of War'
{HRI 20051027-V1.8.1}
(27 Oct 2005 - Version 1.8.1 on 4 May 2007)
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.military/msg/71ca92e9e9d5e495
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